Thanks for your willingness to share a story we can all relate to. Judging is such a tempting default because it takes almost no energy, it gives us whatever boost in a sense of moral superiority we may crave or feel we need, and it does indeed delay action in a way that panders to our moral laziness. To learn to escape this trap is to achieve a major liberation indeed.
I have totally been in this situation (not specifically with the coffee shop carrier) and can sympathize. This is something I do really need to work on. Thank you for sharing this!
Judgement Disrupts (or Delays) Just Action
Thanks for your willingness to share a story we can all relate to. Judging is such a tempting default because it takes almost no energy, it gives us whatever boost in a sense of moral superiority we may crave or feel we need, and it does indeed delay action in a way that panders to our moral laziness. To learn to escape this trap is to achieve a major liberation indeed.
I have totally been in this situation (not specifically with the coffee shop carrier) and can sympathize. This is something I do really need to work on. Thank you for sharing this!
Thank YOU, Tanner. Great stuff here. Keep it up, dude!